The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm Control

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Orgasm control is a sexual skill thanks to which men, in a totally voluntary way, can decide when they want to ejaculate while having sex. Men can length, shorten the time until achieving the climax moment, and deepening the time, even if they do not ejaculate. One reason men want to control their ejaculation is …

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7 Terms to Survive a Date in 2024

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In an increasingly digitalized world, where social networks and dating apps have redefined the landscape of romance and flirting, maintaining a spontaneous and sustained conversation has become an endangered art. Terms like ghosting, bread-crumbing, love-bombing, etc., have invaded our vocabulary, describing situations that many experience in the realm of love and relationships, especially after the …

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Can lack of sleep contribute to premature ejaculation?

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I stumbled upon an intriguing investigation and its astonishing results. W Zhang and his colleagues conducted extensive research on the relationship between sleep quality and premature ejaculation. In an experiment involving 349 men, they observed that “sleep quality may be a potential risk factor for patients with acquired premature ejaculation.” But what does this truly …

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Here’s Why Men (Don’t) Cry

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Introduction In a world where some emotions are often seen as signs of weakness, especially in men, movements challenging the social norms dictating how we should express ourselves have emerged. The stigma associated with men showing vulnerability, like crying, remains a highly relevant topic. That’s why we’ve set out to delve deeper into the relationship …

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Unlocking the Forbidden: The Allure of Taboo Desires

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Have you ever fantasized about doing something forbidden? Does the idea of engaging in acts that defy societal norms excite you? Throughout history, humans have felt an undeniable attraction to the forbidden. Whether in the realm of personal relationships, substance consumption, exploring restricted places, or challenging established social norms, we refer to this as the …

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Christmas: the worst time for couples

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As the festive season approaches, the air is filled with the scent of cinnamon and joy, yet for some couples, Christmas or the holidays marks a challenging period. Surprisingly, statistics reveal that separations and divorces experience a noticeable uptick during this time of the year. The holiday season, often associated with warmth and togetherness, paradoxically …

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All Questions and Answers about Premature Ejaculation

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As a sexologist, specially trained in couples counseling and with extensive experience in the field of male sexuality, I have devoted years to understanding and addressing the challenges associated with premature ejaculation. Throughout my professional experience, I have encountered numerous questions related to typical concerns about premature ejaculation. Some of these questions are based on …

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Can Alcohol Lead to Premature Ejaculation?

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As a specialist in male sexual dysfunction, particularly premature ejaculation, I’ve encountered numerous techniques and methods that individuals often turn to in hopes of enhancing their ejaculation time. Among these approaches, the use of alcohol stands out as one of the most frequently employed. Intrigued by the prevalence of this strategy, I felt compelled to …

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Looking for Pregnancy with Premature Ejaculation? We Have the Ultimate Key

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Understanding Early Ejaculation: What Is It? In the realm of male sexual well-being, understanding premature ejaculation is the first step toward overcoming concerns related to fertility and pregnancy. Premature ejaculation, characterized by the uncontrollable release of semen shortly after sexual arousal and minimal stimulation, can pose challenges for couples aiming to conceive. As a seasoned …

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Bedroom Issues? Sexual Anxiety may be the Problem

As a psychologist and sexologist, one of my main functions is to adapt and personalize sessions for each individual case. Each reason for seeking consultation has specific characteristics that require tailored and appropriate counseling to meet each user’s needs. However, in many cases, patterns can be established regarding a specific problem. In this case, I’m …

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Mindfulsexting: The way to enjoy your online sexual encounters to the fullest

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Who says mindful sex has to be limited to in-person encounters? In today’s digital age, we’re rewriting the rules of intimacy. Long-distance couples, take note! Thanks to technology, we can create deep, passionate connections even when we’re miles apart. Imagine this: phone calls, video chats, and texts become your canvas for mindfulsexting. It’s essentially a …

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What happens to our body with anabolic steroids?

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The cult of the body has come to stay. It’s a fact we can’t deny and doesn’t come without criticism. While some people see this cult as a way to stay in shape and take care of themselves, others take it to another level. Some people turn to the use of anabolic steroids in the …

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How to talk to your children about diversity and inclusion?

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I stumbled upon intriguing data from Instant Offices, revealing a significant 122% increase in interest in diversity and inclusion since 2010. Even more astonishing, searches for ‘diversity and inclusion for kids’ surged by 200% in 2020 alone. This emphasizes the growing importance of these concepts. This underscores their significance for parents and children. Teaching inclusive …

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STIs: Should we be worried?

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According to data provided by the ProyectoScopio barometer and the Bloom observatory of women’s health, both located in Spain, Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) such as syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia have experienced a significant increase in the last five to ten years. These diseases were close to extinction in this country until the year 2000, but …

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Pregnant Together: things you should know about pregnancy and sex

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As a future dad, or caregiver, you may have questions and concerns about maintaining a healthy and enjoyable sexual relationship during this special time. I’m here to provide you with relevant information and important considerations to help you navigate this topic with confidence and understanding. Whether you’re curious about the safety of sexual intercourse, the …

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Stages of Love: Which one are you in?

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Love is one of the most intense and complex emotions that we can experience in many different ways throughout our lives, which is why it is a topic that sparks discussion and continues to raise many questions. In this article, we will address the following questions: Are there different types of love? How long does …

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Sexting: awakening arousal through social media

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Do you have social media? Have you ever flirted through them? Then surely you have practiced sexting in some way! (or you have “a friend” who has done it). Whether you have or not, sexting has its basic rules that you should know, especially if you already practice it (or plan to do so). Why? …

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Steady Couples: What’s the Key?

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Don’t you get the feeling that today’s couples don’t last as long as they used to? You’ve probably heard someone older say “back in my day, couples stayed together for life.” While that may be true to some extent, it doesn’t necessarily mean the couple was happy or in a healthy relationship. In fact, the …

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Vasectomy: Everything you need to know

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Vasectomy 101 Male vasectomy is a permanent family planning procedure that involves cutting or blocking the vas deferens, which carry sperm from the testicles to the semen. This prevents sperm from mixing with semen and therefore prevents fertilization. Basically, it is a male sterilization process. Phew! You may feel a bit put off by this …

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Can cannabis affect your sperm quality?

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Marijuana, also known as cannabis or weed, is one of the most commonly used recreational drugs in the world as well mentioned by the CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention). While the use of marijuana has become increasingly accepted and legalized in some parts of the world, there is still much to be understood …

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An affordable and unique Valentine’s Day.

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Oh, la, la! San Valentine’s Day, also known as the day of love, a day to express our affections for those dear to us. 24 hours of celebrating our feelings for others. But do we western society celebrate this day? Where does it come from? History of Valentine’s day There are several stories about the …

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After-sex: What to do after sex?

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Whenever browsing the internet, one can find an infinite number of pre-sex oriented games. It is fairly simple to comprehend these results, as many of us are interested about the practices and games to increase sexual tension, libido or, simply, to diversify a little in the world of sexual games. However, when searching for games …

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Sexual fantasies you might not have heard of.

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Here’s a look at four of the most uncommon sexual fantasies I came across in my session. Most of them have a historical meaning or background. In this article you will find interesting information about these fantasies and before you finish you will learn where they come from and why there are people who fantasize …

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Viagra: the new trend

Viagra the new trend

Viagra has been one of the main pharmaceutical products for male sexuality since the 90’s, especially when it comes to erectile dysfunction. Its popularity is due to the fact that it increases blood flow to the penis, making it remain erect, which allows sexual intercourse. But, as with all drugs, they may pose a number …

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Curious facts about oral sex

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Oral sex is an act of appreciation and sensuality. It’s an exciting way to connect with someone in such a pleasurable way. However, even as an isolated act, oral sex serves as a deeply intimate, satisfying experience for both parties. This act has been known to exist for centuries but there’s still some myths and …

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STIs: debunking myths and stigmas

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An increasing number of sexually active people are understanding the importance of getting checked routinely for sexually transmitted infections (STIs) as an essential part of sexual health, however once people become involved in a committed relationship, they often decide that they no longer need to get tested.  Furthermore, many do not believe it is necessary …

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Asexuality: the great unknown

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In the world of sexual diversity we find all kinds of people. Fortunately, as the society advances, so do the LGTBIQ+ people’s rights, as well as the understanding of sexuality in general. But there are some sexual identities that continue to generate controversy and which remain largely unknown: people who identify themselves as asexual. One …

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Sex as we get older

Sex as we get older

Sexuality plays an important part role in our lifes, as we are sexual beings. Since the day we were born, till the day we die, we will be accompanied by our sexuality. This means that sex doesn’t fades away once we reached old age and that’s a big myth we need to address. It is …

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Ways to make masturbation fun again

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When it comes to sexuality, we can state that the vast majority of us masturbate. Some more, some less. Sometimes to relax, sometimes to sleep better, and sometimes to enjoy ourselves and indulge in pleasure. Of course, masturbation can take place individually or in company, this makes it a very versatile practice. Masturbation can help …

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What does New Masculinity mean?

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The phrase “New Masculinity” was popularized in October 2019, when GQ published the “The New Masculinity Issue.” But well before 2019, the idea of new masculinity has been around, and it’s taken various names, including “modern masculinity” and “positive masculinity.”  But doesn’t matter what you call it, the bottom line of this is that we …

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Closets, what are they for?

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We all know the expression coming out of the closet. It comes from the mid-twentieth century in the United States and it is believed that its origin comes from trans men and women who “came out of the closet” who wore feminine clothes as a way to express their sexuality openly to society in a …

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Relationship routines: causes and how to avoid them

Relationship routines causes and how to avoid them

We all know about the effects of routine, and the monotony, when it comes to everyday life. Some people are quite comfortable when it comes to monotony, some like to plan ahead and have a predictable, scheduled agenda. On the other hand, some people are somewhat inclined with monotony and doing the same things at …

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Body Awareness: What it is and Tips to get it

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One of the main reasons we don’t enjoy sex is because we don’t perceive the changes that our bodies go through. You may be asking yourself: how come we don’t perceive these changes? This may be due to the fact that we tend to be oblivious about our bodily sensations and therefore, our pleasure. The …

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Male Multiorgasm

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Oh baby, yes! Male multiorgasm is possible but people don’t tend to talk about it. For the past few decades, woman orgasm has been a trending topic, mainly because many noticed that could have multiple orgasms in one sexual encounter. But did you know that men or people with penis have the same physical ability …

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Edging: the new sex trend

Edging new sex trend

Have you ever had to leave something unfinished due to unexpected interruptions? We all know that feeling of frustration. We don’t like to leave an activity unfinished. However, when we decide to interrupt an activity intentionally, we can experience an intriguing and pleasurable sensation because we know what will be the outcome. What if I …

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Pain and pleasure: how to enjoy pain in bed

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Let’s talk about pain and pleasure. Did you know these two concepts are related? You might not know this, but sometimes pain produces a pleasurable sensation. We caught your attention for sure, but first we start talking about how to experience pain in a pleasurable way, we must explain that pain has different types of …

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How to look after Male Fertility

How to look after Male Fertility

The complacency of the male population when it comes to preserving their fertility is well known to fertilization clinic specialists. And, to some extent, this is excusable, as, unlike with women, it is quite normal for a man to be unaware of any fertility problems he may have until the very moment he decides he …

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Sexual chemistry: How to maximize it

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Have you ever felt an explosion of energy traveling through your body, sexual tension, increased heart rate, goosebumps, butterflies in the stomach, insatiable happiness and an euphoric sensation? It is possible that you were experimenting sexual chemistry. Sexual chemistry basically motivates us to meet new people and go a step further. But, we’ve all wondered, …

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Keep your libido high: do aphrodisiac foods actually exist?

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MYHIXEL experts recommend brown rice, oily fish, fruits such as apples and grapes among other foods in our shopping list. For a better sexual response, avoid consuming alcohol, coffee, sweeteners, high saturated foods and processed foods. It has long been said that aphrodisiac foods help us feel more passionate towards others or increase our overall …

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5 Tips to last longer in bed without Pills

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Tips on how to last longer in bed without pills are always welcome, mainly because these natural remedies will not expose us to side effects of the over the counter “treatments”. Learning how to last longer in bed has a direct positive impact on your self-confidence. Keep reading to discover these natural methods. Control your …

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